Editorial: Donald Trump’s Malignant Narcissism Is Costing Lives

I’ve dealt with more than one malignant narcissist in my lifetime. One thing I’ve noticed about all of them is that, as with malignant narcissist Donald Trump, they lie without a care that five minutes later you’re likely to discover their lie, or that even as the lie comes out of their mouths, you’ll realize they’re lying.
They’re addicted to lying, because in the moment, it’s a rush for them. For a moment, their extraordinary lie gets them that hero worship they crave. They know that as long as they hold their enablers, say, the MAGAs, under their spell by making them feel “special,” they’ll be forgiven over and over for lying as long as they continue promising the next “thrill” for their enabler. God forbid that someone should stand up to their nonsense….The challenger had better be ready to be humiliated, mocked, belittled, and ostracized.
As I watched Donald Trump lie so irresponsibly yesterday about a drug that will be “available immediately” for the coronavirus, I saw Dr. Birx’ expression change ever so subtlely behind Trump as this feckless claim came out of his mouth.
And as Stephen Hahn, the head of the FDA, diplomatically clarified that, no, it wasn’t approved for coronavirus yet, and it was only in early trials, and it may be months, and it may not even work, I thought to myself, it doesn’t even matter that Trump was caught in this dangerous lie. As they always do, as with all of the other deliberate lies he’s told, his enablers, the MAGAs, will pour fuel on the gaslight that will follow when Trump says—and he will —“I never said that.”
And when we do get to the end of this crisis, whether or not this or another drug is found effective for managing the Coronavirus, Donald Trump, despite his lies, his ineptness, and his narcissism that directly led to the chaotic crisis we’re in now, and despite the heroic actions that local and state governments were compelled to take in response to the incompetence of our leader, the MAGAs will hail Donald Trump as the hero.
Donald Trump has been completely successful at creating a cult that believes that he is the source of all Truth. Disagreement, challenge, and questioning are not tolerated.
Because Trump’s base are so programmed to believe Trump, no matter what, they believed him when he said this virus was being politicized by the Democrats (“their latest hoax”). They put their faith in him when he said that it was nothing to worry about, instead of believing the science that warned of its potential deadliness. Some of them took the lie further and propagated additional and more outlandish conspiracy theories. The most dangerous conspiracy theory, though, was that “the media” (and, of course, the “liberals”) were exaggerating it all, it wasn’t as bad as the flu, and they should all continue “living their lives.”
Even now, though Donald Trump has finally acknowledged the threat of this virus, many of his devout find themselves unable to make that sharp turn along with him. But in the event that they do, Donald Trump has already provided them with the lie that they can use as their lifeline: his statement, “I’ve been saying all along that this was a pandemic.”
In the meantime, however, these are the people who have actively worked to convince their fellow humans that taking precautions was stupid. They posted memes; they parroted the latest pronouncements from Fox News. They asked each other, “has anyone actually KNOWN someone with the coronavirus?” (No? then it MUST be a conspiracy.) These are the people who have flouted safety and good sense, and stubbornly “lived their lives,” endangering all of the rest of us as we try our futile best to prevent its spread.
And now, even if Donald Trump’s enablers do come around to realizing that this is all real, it may not be soon enough. It’s already too late for so many of the people who tried to warn them. They can only hope that they weren’t responsible for 1, 5, 25 or more casualties or deaths, as they heeded their leader’s message and “lived their lives.” What is the promised thrill from their leader at this point?

Trump Supporters Believe Coronavirus Could Be A ‘Nothing Burger’ | NBC News [2020-02-28]

10 times Trump downplayed the coronavirus | Washington Post
[2020-03-05]

Editorial: Health Insurance Companies Shouldn’t Have the Power to Destroy Lives

Last year, I decided to leave my soul-killing corporate job that I had been staying in solely for the health insurance benefits, to go out on my own as a consultant. I wasn’t downsized or let go. It was fully my choice to leave.

Some of my colleagues called me “brave.” Why? Not because I was leaving a “permanent” salary to go out on my own to a more precarious situation, although that is definitely something to be concerned about. It was all about the health insurance. I was electing to give up a job where my very good (and very expensive) health insurance was generously subsidized by my employer. Yes, some of my colleagues called me “brave,” but I’ll admit that at least one or two others called me “insane.”

I decided to take the COBRA option, at least through the end of the year, while I shopped around for an alternative. At $1600 a month, COBRA was a drain on my finances, but since I have a daughter with a chronic illness, maintaining good health care coverage is important to me.
I have to acknowledge now that maybe my co-workers weren’t entirely wrong about my “bravery,” although it may have been naivete disguised as bravery. I thought I’d have no trouble finding a good and affordable insurance plan on my state’s Health Connector, one of the statewide insurance clearinghouses set up under Obama’s Affordable Care Act (ACA, or “Obamacare”). Several years ago, I had been able to purchase a nice plan this way when I needed to.
I found, though, that the previous variety of plans and providers was no longer available on the Health Connector. Those that were left were pricey, had high deductibles, and, unless I was willing to pay the amount I had been paying under COBRA, had numerous restrictions.
I ended up purchasing a plan that I’m not entirely happy with, because the premium was the maximum I could comfortably afford each month.
This experience was an acute reminder that in the United States, the reason many people stay in unsatisfying, toxic, or underpaying jobs is that it’s the only way they have access to health insurance. And not all insurance plans are equal in the coverage they provide, the restrictions they have, or the portion of the premium that employees must pay. Even for those who have employer-subsidized health insurance, many will still be at risk of losing everything, should they or a family member have a serious, long, or expensive illness.
We’re told that hospitals will often “work with you” to pay medical bills. Several years ago, I worked in a hospital financial services office. Our patients had to prove that they were practically destitute and had exhausted all other resources before we would “work with them.” Many impoverished people, not to mention those who aren’t destitute but who are still struggling, fall through the cracks.
No one should have to exhaust all of their resources for the sake of their healthcare. No one’s life should be turned upside-down because of healthcare expenses.
It’s no wonder that in a recent Gallup poll (along with numerous other polls), healthcare was the top issue for voters, with 35 percent saying it was extremely important, and 81 percent saying it was “extremely to very important.”
Whether one has insurance through an employer, through a state Health Connector, or through a broker, the cost of treatment and medications (and often, the premium itself) is prohibitive. For those without access to affordable insurance, the cost is impossible. More and more Americans are coming to realize that there but for the grace of God or their employer, go they.
Despite the dearth of great health care options on my state’s Health Connector, I am a staunch supporter of the ACA. For all insurance consumers, not just those using “Obamacare,” it has given us benefits that we have now come to take for granted. It requires that annual checkups be fully covered; prevents insurers from denying us coverage if we have a pre-existing condition (which is important for my family — most families, if we’re honest); provides for a number of previously not well-covered services including those for addiction and mental health care; and requires health insurers to cover prenatal care, among many other benefits that previously, insurers could wiggle out of covering.
Our current president wants to take all of that away. Not because he wants to replace it with a plan that will better serve Americans. Certainly not because he wants more Americans to have access to decent healthcare. He wants to take it away simply because the ACA was Obama’s idea (and was shepherded by Trump’s current rival, Joe Biden). Trump wants to obliterate all things Obama — and we know how Trump feels about Joe Biden, as well.
There is much about the ACA that needs improvement. But it is an important first set of steps toward creating a healthcare system that works for the majority of people, and that could eventually work for all of us. Its guidelines are the best we’ve ever had as far as patient protections, and it’s the best we could hope to have under Donald Trump.
Our health is important, and our healthcare is important. Access to healthcare, however, should not be the force that drives so many of the other major decisions we make about our lives — where we work, how long we stay in an unbearable work situation, how many jobs we have to work, whether we can afford to go to the doctor, and, for many, which other bills to hold off paying in order to pay a medical bill, or even whether to declare bankruptcy.
As more people have experienced or witnessed firsthand what it’s like to have to make life-impacting sacrifices solely for the sake of their healthcare coverage (or because of non-coverage), more and more Americans are coming together on the position that healthcare is a right, not a privilege.
As of Thursday, March 5, the Democratic race for the presidential nominee has been whittled down to two men and one woman. Voters will place their faith in one of these candidates to heal the condition of healthcare in the U.S. Each has a different approach, but Democrat voters have high hopes that one of them will free us from the power that the private health insurance industry has to destroy our lives.

Sanders: The current healthcare system is ‘pathetic’ | CNN [2020-03-02]

Wall Street Focuses on Health Care in Election | Bloomberg Politics
[2020-03-03]